Individual Coachings
Get your personal coach and reach your goals.
What is the purpose of a personal coach?
To unlock a person’s potential to maximize their performance. Coaching helps learning rather than teaching
So, what is a personal coach? It’s not just a mentor. It’s not just a friend. It’s not just a coach in the most basic sense. A personal coach is a partner, someone who’s there for you through life’s most difficult and challenging times, able to guide you through and help you to see things differently, refine your approach and achieve your loftiest dreams.
Most of us are so set in our ways, that unless we have an objective third-party actually point things out to us, we often fail to notice the things that are setting us back. It’s a monumental undertaking to do this by yourself. That said, here are the 10 reasons why you absolutely must have a life coach if you’re serious about succeeding at whatever it is that you’re aiming for.
Top 10 Reasons why you want to work with a coach

- You have difficulty achieving goals, big or small ones
- You experience fear and stress response repeatedly, which makes you feel stuck
- You want to know what limiting belief is holding you back and how to get rid of it
- You feel overwhelmed and don’t know where to start
- You want to develop a vision and you want it to be a challenge
- You are out of balance with one or all of these: health, finance, job, relationships
- You don’t have real passion or desire for things you once loved
- You get distracted with nonsense activities and time wasters
- You are constantly seeking approval and pleasing people but you don't know why
- Your family does not understand you and you feel lost
This is how My Coaching works

- It’s a 7-step perspective shifting, enlightening and empowering coaching process that’s designed to explore your truth and to maximize your true potential, based on the ICF’s Core Competency Model and NLP
- During your sessions, you can expect to experience moments of truth and become more aware of your thoughts, language, emotions and behaviors and their effects on yourself and others
- When we partner up together strongly, we both empower our coaching relationship
- Also, the purpose of my Coaching sessions is not to fix or solve your problem, It’s to transform your thinking and to maximize your personal and professional potential so that you get to enjoy solving your own problem
- I use the power of Neuro-Shine Coaching™ best practices based on ICF founded expertise and positive psychology principals
The Coaching Model

Letting go of the past
- Our brain is a recording machine, every positive and negative experience you had in the past has been recorded
- While positive ones are also stored, the subconscious mind puts its focus on the negative experiences to protect you from them to happen again
- It created coping programs to allow yourself to survive certain situations and experiences without being hurt.
- Whatever happened in the first 10 years of your life has laid down the foundation for your adulthood.
- These programs include beliefs, rules and behaviors to cope with similar situations in the future
- These programs are also creating continuous intrusive thoughts, they tell you’re a story to make yourself belief that these programs are still valid.
- The were used so many times that they became automated and part of our identity, it feel like home
- These programs are ruling you, holding you back and preventing you from pursue your personal vision and goals
- They are also a great source of anxiety, worry and pain.
- BUT they are outdated, today you are a different person and therefore it is time to change your programs and let them go.
- Here you will learn how to elicit your programs and to assess if they still serve and how they affect you
- Sometimes you don’t know how you acquired them and that’s ok, it is not a showstopper to rewrite them the way they serve you
Managing the moment
- The present moment is where we live but the fact that 95% of your time is managed by our subconscious mind makes it a real challenge
- It means nothing else that 95% we are run by the programs we acquired on the past and so therefore we live the facto in the past
- Whenever we set goals to achieve our subconscious mind runs these programs in order to check if we are comfortable with them
- Every change is perceived to be a threat because it’s the unknown
- The subconscious does not like uncertainty, so it begins to induce resistance, worst-case scenarios, and anxiety causing heavy stress response.
- The fact is that even the mind is not able to see in the future, so all anxiety is a product of the past programing which projected into the future
- This requires us to use our will power to overcome this resistance, while this works for certain period, the subconscious mind will finally win the battle
- Managing the present moment is key to interrupt the patterns and rewirte your programs to match your vision and make the brain work for you instead against you
- Here you will learn how to do that, how to regain control of your decisions and to objectively assess the situations
- You will also learn how to manage stress response and how to induce your beliefs, rules and behaviors supporting your future self-vision
Creating a new future self
- The main reason why you haven’t reach what you desire is because your subconscious mind holds programs which are NOT supporting your journey.
- Here is where you will create your new future-self according to your desire and vision
- Many times, we don’t know how to create a vision and why we need them, but a vision is a compass for your mind.
- Your brain works like a GPS and if the destination is address is not clear enough it will start to do what it does best and that’s running the old programs and looping
- While the programs are always running, having a clear vision helps your brain to find the right path and get you there
- Its not only about writing a vision and goals on paper, its about inducing the message into your subconscious mind to change its default past program
- Creating tangible goals associated with a strong why-story which pulls you literally out of your comfort zone
- What are the beliefs, rules and behaviors you got to have in place in order reach your desire?
- What habits are you running and how are they servicing your purpose, what needs to be adapted and how?
- Here you will learn how to create a new “software” for your mind and how implementing it to make it stick
- You will create a personal routine and action plan to assure consistent practice to reach maximum effectiveness
- You are more than enough to do whatever you want to do!
With me as your coach you will:
- You will work with highly committed empathic human, ready to share my story here
- Learn new techniques to change your emotional state and reprogram your mind
- Identify and define a vision for your life – what do you really want to achieve?
- Define goals and make them tangible and digestible for the brain
- Elicit mental blockers & patterns like limiting beliefs, rules, behaviors and how to remove them
- Gain awareness about your thoughts, language, emotions and behaviors and their effects on you and others
- Learn to manage stress that results from fear and being overwhelmed
- Go deep into your subconscious mind and make it work for you
- Create professional and/or personal action plans
- Learn to communicate more successfully and effectively with yourself and others to reach your goals
- Obtain a work/life balance to prevent getting burned out
- Foster more powerful connections, professionally and personally

Flexibel Pricing Model & Plans
Subscription plans
Subscription plans are very flexible and convenient. lets look at it individually.
Get in touch with me to discuss further price & payment plans, we will always find a way
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Testimonials
One of the great things about Ernesto’s program is it is unique to the client. There is no one size fits all.
Ernesto takes the time to hear your story and struggles. The program offered specific practices tailored towards my
anxiety and certain life blockages. Ernesto has made a positive impression on my life. Beside the program itself, Ernesto brings in the human aspect and his past experience to let the client know that they can in fact overcome severe anxiety and limitations the anxiety may bring. I recommend this for anyone who has fear and anxiety within their life right now. You were brought here for a reason.

I have been a huge fan of Ernesto’s Instagram posts which is what led me to sign up for his 2 Day Seminar on Rewiring the Brain.
Ernesto is extremely passionate about what he does and it was very evident in the way he conducted the online seminar, bright, positive and full of energy.
Ernesto exhibited great wisdom, compassion and vulnerability in his teaching approach, sharing many of his personal life experiences to help the audience relate more deeply with the concepts. The seminar in itself was very detailed and well structured going into details of how the brain works and how to do efficient goal setting. It is a great opportunity for anyone who wants to learn the basics of NLP. Keep doing the excellent work that you do Ernesto. You are passionately following your purpose and that passion and devotion to help others, shines through both in your work and from your soul. More power to you.
I really enjoyed Ernesto’s seminar on reprogramming the mind! I had already learned parts of the information presented during our time together, but when he combined it all, it clicked for me personally. Ernesto also brought his personal charm and backstory that further supported his message when it comes to getting stuck in a social system that does not support our best nature. Over the course of 2 seminar days, we learned so much about each other and ourselves. I realized how much I had been blaming myself, even though I was already doing much of what Ernesto suggested in his program. The information, combined with his personal touch and the pictures and diagrams he used, came together to form a unified theme: We need to take more responsibility in our lives to create the reality we want to live in and participate in. Different modalities and approaches to the changes Ernesto described were presented, which made me feel more comfortable taking matters into my own hands. Thank you for everything you contributed to this seminar!
Ernesto is really kind and thoughtful, ready to share his knowledge and his experiences in a way that is totally relatable to everyone. He gave golden tips on how to break the cycle of negative self thoughts or how to deal with overwhelming states. His anchoring exercise is golden and super helpful to navigate these weird times we are living. I advise everyone who is ready to swim deep into this neuroplasticity waters to embrace Ernersto’s training. Easy to understand, reliable and relatable. It was one of the best things I did for myself this year. Thank you for all the support and for sharing so much, Ernesto. It was wonderful.
I found Ernesto’s course/seminar to be highly informative and clearly laid out. For anyone struggling with life and all aspects of it the information and coaching he shares would be of great assistance and an investment in self. The rewrite your program seminar is an eye opening Experience as to how our minds work to create our reality and clearly sets a path for rewiring and changing beliefs, habits and much much more. Thank you Ernesto for creating this amazing opportunity for us to engage and participate in so that we can regain control of our mind in a world where it’s needed now more than ever!
I have been following Ernesto for over a year or so on insta and i was hooked on to his posts and i am such a big fan, when he announced that he will be holding a seminar, i was very excited!
When i joined his seminar i was blown away by all the knowledge i recieved from him. If anyone wants to do something positive for themselves this is where you should get started. I
It is very detailed and everything i had wished for. Thank you Ernesto!
It was a great experience to me. Ernesto spoke of his experience in such a open manner that everybody could understand and feel. Personally i use every day the tools i have learnd in the seminar with Ernesto. I just can reccomend this seminar to everybody. Just do it and feel better❤️😉👌🏻
Ernesto has taken the time to bundle up the best tools out there to help you live your best life whether it be personally or in business. Ernesto delivers how to set goals in a simplified manner that is easy to implement. Ernesto presents with humility and vulnerability with great stories in how he overcame his struggles to live his best life. Take his seminar they are well worth it . He invested in himself and shares that investment with others in such a generous manner.

Ernesto Parisii is a powerful combination of a beautiful soul, golden heart and a strong mind. He is a true example of commitment, especially when it comes to mastering the knowledge. He will go all the way to the core of the issue, he will study ins and outs, pros and cons, trues and falses of everything that matters to him, until he owns and becomes the knowledge!But the real beauty is not even in his level of mastery, it is in his why… He wants to learn so much because he wants to serve so much. His big heart has enough love to serve the whole world.When I met him at Harvard Business School back in 2009, I never knew I would love and respect him so very much. He’s been an absolute delight to have in my life as my friend, student and now my business partner as one of my first ever Licensed Trainers of Neuro-Shine Technology™.
If you are looking for someone who can teach you HOW you can combine the power of your mind and the wisdom of your heart, Ernesto is your man. And I highly and wholeheartedly recommend.

I feel very fortunate to have come across Ernesto via his wonderful Instagram account ernestoparisii. I was immediately impressed by his passion for people and for helping them reprogram their limiting beliefs and habits. Ernesto is a generous well of wisdom and compassion and gives so much valuable content! Everything he teaches, he has used to improve his own life and raise his personal and professional levels of impact and productivity. We have been working together for a couple of months now and my confidence, creativity and wellbeing have skyrocketed thanks to his support and vision. Eternally grateful to this amazing man and brilliant coach.

Wir haben uns folgendermaßen kennengelernt. Er kam geschäftlich nach Los Angeles, Kalifornien, USA. Ich war am selben Ort. Ernestos erste persönliche Coaching-Sitzung hat seine Glaubwürdigkeit und sein Wissen über persönliche Entwicklung unter Beweis gestellt. Danach blieben er und ich über das Internet mit Whatsapp-Texten und Anrufen über sechs Monate hinweg in Kontakt.
Dies ist ein wichtiger Punkt: Ernestos Präsenz, Leidenschaft und Weisheit gehen über das Format von Text und Telefon hinaus. Er half mir beim Übergang von der Hausfrau zur vielbeschäftigten Autorin, indem er mir half, Ängste vor Ablehnung zu überwinden. Ernesto half mir auch, einige Familiendynamiken mit meinen inzwischen erwachsenen Töchtern zu bewältigen. Ich freue mich, berichten zu können, dass diese in guter Ordnung sind. Er sagt, was er meint. Er meint, was er sagt. Ernesto hat sich mit einer Leidenschaft für meinen Erfolg eingesetzt, die ich selten bei anderen erlebt habe. Der beste Indikator für seine Qualität als Coach ist vielleicht, an wie viele Details er sich noch Monate später erinnert. Ja, ich empfehle Ernesto Parisii als Coach! Schnell! Melde Dich an und nimm an seinem Programm teil! Tun Sie es, bevor die anderen es herausfinden und es schwer ist, in seinen Kalender zu kommen!

It is my absolute pleasure be writing a few lines about Ernesto Parisii. I met Ernesto through our pages on Instagram. I was new to Instagram at the time but knew once I had looked through his feed and had conversation with him through DM, he was someone I wanted to follow and support. I am a long-time student of what I call, The Great Work of Self. What I have experienced with Ernesto is someone who is very dedicated to helping people experience and understand the Great Work for themselves. I see him as someone who is humbling working through his own challenges and sharing his journeys very authentically for the greater good of the human following him. Ernesto has a knack for simplifying steps that make it easier to understand certain aspects of the personal growth journey and helping those following him to know they are not alone in the difficulties that can show up along the path to being a better human, letting go of past and living a happy life. I have had the pleasure of live video conversation with Ernesto whereby he helped me to understand more of EFT, that I was then able to share with a loved one. I see this man growing in his life, sharing authentically what it takes and speaking of his personal work to be a better human. His focus is directed to helping people who are looking for answers to move forward in their lives. The Great Work of Self is not easy work. Ernesto shares the reality of his experiences openly and honestly and can teach with care and simplicity. Wonderful attributes in a human wanting to help other humans.